Motherhood
I haven't been so consistent at updating lately and as much as I enjoy writing this blog and doing everything on the side, being a mom and giving Bentley all my time is where my priorities lie. It would be so easy to let Bentley play by himself while I work on something else but I feel that it is so important for me to be present for him. If he's up, I want to be the one with him playing and teaching him everything and having fun. Isn't that what being a mom is about?
I feel there are so many distractions made for moms today that take away from the time that could be spend enjoying each and every moment we have with our babies. Because you know what, before we know it they aren't babies anymore. I don't want to have any regrets when Bentley grows up and wish I had given him more of my time. Time when he really needed me there. I know I've shared this quote on here before but I just had to share it again. It is one of my favorites from President Thomas S. Monson:
I know, it's so cliche but I find myself thinking everyday
(seriously everyday)
"How did this happen?"
In the short 10 months that Bentley has been here, he has grown so much and I don't want to miss a second of it. It makes me sad thinking that the "Baby" stage is over. I miss those long cuddles where he would just sleep on me for hours on end. At the same time it is so much fun now that he's interacting with us more and his personality is starting to come through. He really understands what is going on. Just the other night we had gone out to a movie (which is almost impossible now since he is getting so mobile) and Bentley was trying to crawl up the stairs at the side of the theater and he looked over and saw me and just gave me the biggest grin. It was so dark I don't know how he even saw me, but it just melted my heart! I love how he knows us.
Motherhood is a gift. It is a privilege. It is something I look forward to when I wake up every morning. It is something that has changed my life more than any decision thus far in my life. It is also the best decision I have ever made. I'll be honest, at the end of the day I'm glad to put Bentley to bed. But I guarantee you 5 minutes later, Brady and I are saying, "Can we go get him?". I mean we don't of course, but we miss him so much that we seriously consider it! Yes, there are days that are hard. Really hard. But the good times are so much better.
Growing up, I was so excited to be a mom. But even then, I underestimated just how much I would love being a mom. It is without a doubt, the most amazing gift I have ever been given. There is nothing better in the world to have Bentley as my son and I am so lucky to be his mom.
I am so lucky to have so many great mothers and role models in my life. All of whom I look up to so much! These women helped shape me into the person I am today and for that, I am forever grateful. When I was in 4th grade my parents divorced and my mom moved out. Although it was really tough, I am grateful for that trial and feel that it made our bond stronger. I am definitely a mamma's girl and always will be. I love my mom!
Since we love moms so much here at
Hello Little Scout
I have some freebies for you guys! I know, it's been so long since I've done these so I wanted to make it up to you guys and make a bunch of my favorite Mother's Day quotes/sayings. Enjoy!
Happy Mother's day Mommies!
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